yes, to some extent. But there are quite a few men at the calling who do make an effort. Nobody could accuse dreamfracture of not trying, for example. But, no thomases at that club, apparently.

And men wearing makeup - the problem is that we haven't gone through the same years of learning how to put on makeup without looking like you've got a black eye. It might look good in theory, but in practice it'd be just blotches of colour on our faces.